The Love Dare and Marriage.

Ok so I don't know what it is about 2010 but for me it feels like it is the D year D for divorce :( It feels like so many of my friend are having so many marriage problems or are getting divorced, it really makes me want to cry! No marriage is perfect heaven knows that mine and Chaz's isn't perfect but we love each other and we know it takes work and really love is all that matters! All the other stuff we just let get in the way and to be honest it is just selfishness on my part because marriage is for good time and in BAD!! I had the opportunity to talk with family friends about marriage and they had some really awesome advice for me so I am going to share it with all of you!! First off every married couple and anyone in a relationship gets to get a copy of a book called THE LOVE DARE.This book is awesome it is just a huge reminder of what I seem to have forgotten about marriage and what love for my husband really is! It is a 40 day thing were I get to do a different thing for Chaz every day. It's nothing crazy, for example day one was patience.I got to read a little something about patience in the book and then it gives you a stretch to accomplish. I got to have patience with him no matter what he did or said to me that day. It was a challenge at times but well worth it! This book is really awesome so please please read it!! I got if for free online I just googled the book and downloaded it! Anyways back to what else our family friends Sheri and Richard had to say. They really are an amazing couple!! So to make a long story short they said that marriage takes work and unconditional love and support for each other NO MATTER WHAT! And a lot of married couples I think forget about that. They seem to only be ready for the good times because once the "BAD" times happen they split or hate there spouse! So to all married couples out there read this book it will change your life!! Remember that unconditional love and unselfishness acts can change a marriage from worse to amazing in the blink of an eye it just takes one spouse to put forth the effort! And STOP thinking why do I always have to do it, your not a child and why the crap not! If you love your spouse then do it and in turn you will see the results that you want and they in turn will put forth the effort! ILOVE YOU HONEY BUNNY!!

Wedding, Honeymoon and Summer

Hey all so it has been FOREVER and a day since I have updated our lives on our blog!! I would love to say we have been up to LOTS but in fact we have had a pretty boring 10 months. We got married on November 8th, it was the most AMAZING, WONDERFUL day! I LOVE YOU HUBBY OF MINE! We went to Cancun on our honeymoon (pictures coming) we had so much fun laying on the beach, ordering room service. We went to chizaneza and saw the mian runes wow really amazing! Then we went snorkeling well chaz did at least lol I got in the water freaked out and got back on the boat (I'm a wimp). Then we did a whole lot of nothing for a few months. In April Chaz started work again for the summer, first stop El Paso Tx, it is way hot there and we didn't get the chance to do much but we did ride this tram thing up a mountain and back down lol (picture coming) and that was it for El Paso. Then we packed up and drove 15 hours to Oklahoma City, Ok. Wow is it humid here! It really really drives me NUTS! I walk out side and I feel like I have just been sprayed in the face with a squirt gun! I miss UTAH there's not place like home! So this summer we have been watching lots and lots of netflix and movies! Chaz has been doing some fishing though he really loves it! I love it to but I can't stand the humidity so I avoid leaving the house. We are going to try and do a lot more while we are still here and it is summer time so more pictures and post will be coming!