The Love Dare and Marriage.

Ok so I don't know what it is about 2010 but for me it feels like it is the D year D for divorce :( It feels like so many of my friend are having so many marriage problems or are getting divorced, it really makes me want to cry! No marriage is perfect heaven knows that mine and Chaz's isn't perfect but we love each other and we know it takes work and really love is all that matters! All the other stuff we just let get in the way and to be honest it is just selfishness on my part because marriage is for good time and in BAD!! I had the opportunity to talk with family friends about marriage and they had some really awesome advice for me so I am going to share it with all of you!! First off every married couple and anyone in a relationship gets to get a copy of a book called THE LOVE DARE.This book is awesome it is just a huge reminder of what I seem to have forgotten about marriage and what love for my husband really is! It is a 40 day thing were I get to do a different thing for Chaz every day. It's nothing crazy, for example day one was patience.I got to read a little something about patience in the book and then it gives you a stretch to accomplish. I got to have patience with him no matter what he did or said to me that day. It was a challenge at times but well worth it! This book is really awesome so please please read it!! I got if for free online I just googled the book and downloaded it! Anyways back to what else our family friends Sheri and Richard had to say. They really are an amazing couple!! So to make a long story short they said that marriage takes work and unconditional love and support for each other NO MATTER WHAT! And a lot of married couples I think forget about that. They seem to only be ready for the good times because once the "BAD" times happen they split or hate there spouse! So to all married couples out there read this book it will change your life!! Remember that unconditional love and unselfishness acts can change a marriage from worse to amazing in the blink of an eye it just takes one spouse to put forth the effort! And STOP thinking why do I always have to do it, your not a child and why the crap not! If you love your spouse then do it and in turn you will see the results that you want and they in turn will put forth the effort! ILOVE YOU HONEY BUNNY!!